My Dad Called Me a “Bag of Bones” at 12 and I Still See Myself That Way

Throwaway remarks leave the deepest impact

Liam Heitmann-Ryce-LeMercier
Published in
4 min readApr 1, 2024

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As I am today, at 27 [Image property of James Annesley]

I am really tall. Like, 6’3” tall. And like a lot of tall people, I got my height extremely quickly. The first ten years were spent well below my dad’s armpit, with no suggestion that I would soon grow into the long limbs bestowed unto me by my six-foot mother.

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Liam Heitmann-Ryce-LeMercier
Invisible Illness

Gay writer who will always talk to strangers // Australian, 27 // Keith Haring & classical music // https://www.clippings.me/liam_hrl_96